Dear Editor,
Though, unfamiliar with the writings and research of Scott Galloway, regarding his conclusion that men are more lonely than anyone else, I must disagree. Undoubtedly, some men are lonely,, and those feelings are heightened, during times when family and friends gather together, but I don't believe that is more true for men, than for widows, divorcees, or anyone on their own.
Mr. Colquhoun, experienced Detroit city at Christmastime, noting the abundance of communal events, and meeting places throughout the city, much, free of charge. Detroit is large, well developed and reasonably prosperous, conceivably, it benefits from local sponsorship, through industry, business, and philanthropy, and has active organizations, staffed by volunteers. Likely, their public transit is comprehensive and convenient, making it easier for citizens to attend communal events, and other social settings of their choice. With such variety available, we can assume, that loneliness would be lessened, for those not needing a more personal connection. .
Christmastime in Sarnia, can't be compared to a large city, as it has a small population, little diversity in industry and business, with fewer financial contributors, to defray "event" expenses. The aging population has difficulty in providing "active" volunteers. (even, for the events we do have) The main gathering places, are along the river, and Canatara Park. The Dow People Place, (more user friendly, and well-used by local groups) was replaced with the unsatisfactory, Agora. Events once hosted in Centennial Park, have relocated to other sites. As with most cities, Sarnia has the usual community spaces, such as the Legion, libraries, clubs, and churches. Unfortunately, the public transit system, presents riders with inconvenient wait times, routes that cease operation, too early in the evening, areas which are un-serviced, and poorly placed, or spaced "stops." It appears, the area which needs to be serviced, is greater than the current fleet can cover. This, is not conducive to participation in social activity, for those with limited means of transport.
From my perspective, creating more meeting place is unnecessary, they already exist. All anyone needs to do, is put their cell phone away, when they go out walking, shopping, dining, walking the dog, waiting for a bus, riding on the bus. Sitting in waiting rooms, on a park bench, or in the bleachers. All of those present opportunities to meet people, start a conversation, feel less lonely, and perhaps, form a friendship. No fees, or membership required, it's just there, for the "doing."
D. Allan